Yesterday was a good day. If you know me at all....you know how much I love my dog, Gracie. I didn't hesitate for one second on whether or not Gracie should go with us to Beijing. When Walt actually questioned it I asked him if he would leave Eloise, Emerson or Avanell behind...because if his answer was no, then it should be the same response for Gracie.
I know while we were packing up the house Gracie was wondering what was going on. When we moved in with my sister for several days she wasn't as nervous, but on the Saturday that we left, she knew something was up. Dogs just know....they really do. Gracie was picked up on Monday morning. She flew from Houston to Amsterdam...how many people can say their dog was in Amsterdam, and then to Beijing. She stayed in quarantine for 2 days...and then yesterday a miraculous reunion happened. The front office called to let me know that Gracie had been delivered. She arrived at my door and when I first saw her face she was well...pissed. But, the second she realized it was me, she smiled, kissed me all over and was all kinds of happy. I will even let you know that I broke down in tears. This apartment just wasn't the same without her. Our family was not the same without her...and now she is back where she belongs, with us. As I am typing this, she is asleep on the chair...and in all honesty, this is the first time in a month that I have not seen her shaking all over out of fear for what is about to happen. She knows she is with us and we aren't leaving her behind.
January 30, 2015
It was a "dog-gone" good reunion
January 28, 2015
And we made it....
And about 35 hours later....we made it. We officially "live" in Beijing. Right now we are living in downtown Beijing in a hotel, an apartment until our house is ready in the city of Shunyi. Shunyi is considered a "suburb" of Beijing. Shunyi is where the girls will attend school and this is a much smaller city than Beijing with all of the amenities and facilities that you need. This is good for this very small town girl. Big cities are fun to visit....but they are a little overwhelming when you are from a hometown of about 12,000.
We left on Saturday from Houston around 5:00 p.m. Took a 10 hour flight to Moscow and ended up getting there are 3 a.m. Texas time. We then had a 2 hour lay over, then flew 11 hours to Singapore. Our layover in Singapore was 4 hours. The Singapore airport is awesome. We went through a butterfly garden, the kids played on an amazing playscape, we saw Mickey and Minnie....everything you can imagine is in that one airport and that was really cool to experience. Once we got on our flight in Singapore, it was a 6 hour flight to Beijing.
So many people asked us why we took three flights instead of just taking a direct route....we did this for two reasons.
One, we wanted to experience Singapore Air. If you haven't flown them, find them time to do it in your lifetime. They are incredible. The service was amazing, our seats were so comfortable, and everyone fell in love with our girls. We had staff sitting with our girls playing on their leap pad, teaching them words in Mandarin, giving them new toys, it was really comforting to see complete strangers love on our girls the way they did. Speaking of our girls....they were ALL exceptional. By the last leg of the flight they were a little more fussy than usual, but that was to be expected, and it was nothing that a new toy couldn't cure.
The second reason that we took such a long route was to help the bigger girls with jet lag. I think our plan actually worked. They were so tired from the flight that when we arrived at our temporary apartment on Monday they slept from 7 p.m. until 8 a.m. on Tuesday. They were up Wednesday morning from 2:30-5, but this has been the only set back I have experienced from them. Avanell is another story...it's like having a newborn again, only when she wakes up every 2 hours the girl wants you to play with her. She is doing better each day and will adjust soon....I hope.
So yesterday we went and visited the girls' school. This was exciting. They were able to try on their new uniforms, meet all of their new friends in their class and they meet their teachers. The girls start school on Thursday and they will go 5 days a week. This is a big change from Eloise's 3 day a week routine and Emerson's 2 day a week routine, but I know they will love school. We also went and looked at our house. It is being completely renovated and we should move in March 1st. Chinese New Year is Feburary 19th, oddly enough so is Eloise's 5th birthday, and everyone here goes home to visit family, so they moved our move in date back a little bit. Our house was looking good and we are just ready for all of our stuff to arrive (7 more weeks to go) and then we will be surrounded by things from home.
We also went to the American grocery store, Jenny Lou's to stock up on food. This was an interesting experience. A small thing of Cetaphil lotion costs 18.00! Good thing we stocked up on a lot of necessities from Costco before the big move.
And now we are here to today....Wednesday. Wednesday is a no drive day for our driver. Here in Beijing every car has a no drive day....and depending on the last digit on your license plate you know the day you can't drive. Our specific day is Wednesday. So, the girls and I have been cooped up in our apartment playing all day. This has been fine, as they have needed an afternoon nap, and it is very cold outside. The high today is 34, but it is currently 28. It has actually been very sunny both days we have been here. I have been very surprised at the amount of people who are actually out and about walking or riding their bikes to get places. It really shouldn't be surprising, but it is surprising to this Texas girl who is used to it being 78 degrees in January.
It's been two days, i've burnt a pizza....using a Chinese oven, gotten about 15 hours of sleep since Saturday, and adjusted to a 14 hour time difference. This is our new normal. For now at least.
January 14, 2015
Beijing here we come
Ok, it's been awhile since my last post....alright, it's been forever.
I always wondered how people who blogged just all of a sudden stopped.
And then I became one of them.
I get it...life just gets to crazy and too hectic and the next thing you know, your blog has gone out the window.
I do feel like I have done a disservice to my youngest child. Eloise and Emerson have these precious blog books that my sister made for them...I documented every single month of their life...percentages, first smiles, first time they slept through the night.... poor Avanell.
Oh yes, that reminds me...we did add another girl into the mix. Avanell was born in May of 2014.
3 girls...sisters. What wonderful blessings.
And this takes me to why I am all of a sudden picking back up my blog.
WE ARE MOVING.
Not just to another state....but to another country.
CHINA.
We are moving for Walt's job.
We move in less than 2 weeks.
My house is in a state of disarray...unlike anything I have ever seen before.
All I can keep thinking about is how I am moving to China.
I know, it will be a wonderful experience. But right now, right in the middle of what is about to take place...it's a lot.
God has shown me in more ways than one that He is here with us...that I need to cast all of my fears to Him, and He will take care of everything.
But man is it hard.
So...I've started my blog up again. Hopefully this will be a way to document our journey, to keep in touch with friends and family and to create another one of those precious blog books for Avanell....just 8 months late. :)
July 10, 2013
Be still and know
Why does it always seem that through tragedy one is almost always brought closer to God? I have always considered myself to be a spiritual person; however, with all of the recent things that have happened in my life, I have often found myself questioning, "Why, God?" This is not the question that I should be asking and it seems as though God has been trying to show me that He is in fact, here, all around me.
Walt and I went to church two Sundays ago for the first time since Lauren's fall. The sermon topic: How to respond when disaster strikes your family. It was quite the moving sermon, and the entire time I felt as though God were speaking to me. Ever since that sermon I have really been trying to look at positives and notice how God is all around.
Steven Curtis Chapman's song, "Be Still and Know" has popped into my head every night as I am putting my girls to sleep, and when rocking sweet Case.
Be still and know that He is God
Be still and know that He is holy
Be still, O restless soul of mine
Bow before the Prince of peace
Let the noise and clamor cease
Be still
Be still and know that He is God
Be still and know that He is faithful
Consider all that he has done
Stand in awe and be amazed
And know that He will never change
Be still
Be Still, and know that He is God
Be Still, and know that He is God
Be Still, and know that He is God
Be Still; Be speechless
Be still and know that he is God
Be still and know he is our Father
Come rest your head upon his breast
Listen to the rhythm of his unfailing heart of love
Beating for His little ones
Calling each of us to come
Be still, Be still
As I look at the simplicity of the lyrics to this song, I have found myself realizing that God is trying to show me how he is working.
The first verse, to me, is apparent every day when I am with my two precious girls and around my nephew, Case. Watching those 3 play together, all of the noise and clamor ceases when I honestly take a moment to live in their moment, and see all of the innocence that they portray. To see Case getting excited about certain songs that we all sing together, to watch Emerson walk over to Case with a bottle because she can tell he is hungry, and to see Eloise break down with frustration and say that she is "disappointed in herself" because she made the wrong choice....these are all moments of God. Moments where these children are just being children, and where I am able to see just how pure they really are.
And as I study the second verse. This verse speaks volumes to me, and I often find myself replaying this verse over and over. I know that God is faithful. Case and I went to see Lauren (his momma, my sister in law) on Monday. I left standing in awe, and being amazed...and I looked at what all God has done since May 26, when Lauren fell. While at TIRR on Monday, I know in fact, that I witnessed the greatest love story I have ever seen. Lauren knows that Spencer loves her more than anything in this world, and that his vows have been tested and she responds to him like no other. My brother, told me just the other day that he is more in love with Lauren today, than when he married her. God is there. God is a HUGE part of their marriage and every time I see them together, I am reminded of that. I see the progress that Lauren has made from the first time that I saw her after her fall, and I DO consider all the God has done. I was in awe when I saw Case take off Lauren's glasses on Monday, and light up all over because he knew that that was HIS momma (she wears contacts), and I was amazed when I heard Lauren singing as sweetly as she could to him. God is constant....and God will continue to allow more progress for Lauren.
Be still. Be speechless.....
I am speechless. Speechless with how God has intertwined so many lives because of Lauren.
If I am correct Lauren's occupational therapist, speech therapist and physical therapist, all have some tie to Lauren...whether it is going to grad school with my sister, Poco, or knowing someone from UT who knew her... it is crazy. I was teaching Vacation Bible School right when this all happened, and my partner (who I did not know at the time), her sister, was one of Lauren's best friends in pharmacy school. How crazy is it that Lauren ended up at TIRR, in Houston, and Spencer and Lauren just happen to have family who is located here, and we are all able to help out. I can't help but stand in awe and be speechless with how God has allowed things to work.
And the third verse. I can only hope that through all of this that has happened to Lauren, that someone has read about her story and prayed to God for the first time and then came to know Him. Or that someone found their way back to God after hearing of the miraculous things he has done for Lauren. And I know for sure that because of Lauren, prayer has become much more powerful and meaningful for me...and for so many other people. I have seen that the power of prayer has worked. And I have also seen how strong my brother's faith is, and this has inspired me.
So, I have been reminded recently to just be still. Let God do his work. As a human this is difficult, and I fail many times and question many things...however, when I am still, I can see how he is all around me.
I ask that you please continue to pray for my sweet sister in law, Lauren. Please pray that Lauren would become more alert.
That she would begin to initiate conversation.
That as she becomes more aware she wouldn't get depressed.
Pray for complete restoration.
Pray for my brother, Spencer, also. Pray that God would continue to give him strength in this time. That he would focus on today and remember the progress she has made instead of thinking too far into the future.
Continue to share Lauren's story. Ask all you know to pray for her. God is good and he is working.
Isaiah 40:29
He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
July 3, 2013
Quick Update
Since my last post, Lauren has been moved to TIRR, in Houston. Lauren has been there for a little over a week and made incredible progress.
Since coming to TIRR, Lauren has passed her swallow study and is now eating food, and drinking from a cup. She still gets her PEG feedings because she can't eat enough to get all the nutrition she needs yet. Physical Therapy will stand her up from time to time so she can feel weight throughout her legs. Her right side is strongest and she can hold herself up pretty well with a little support and something to lean on. She is starting to move her left hand more purposefully and has waved with it.
Lauren's TRACH was removed early yesterday morning. This is a big deal because not only is she much more comfortable but it should be easier for her to speak. She is still not initiating communication on her own but she is able to answer most questions accurately with time. She knows their dogs' names, address, birthday, son's name, city they live in, where she works, etc... She is having issues with her vision and we are not sure if she is sensitive to light or seeing double. She wears an eye patch because of this. Lauren is still very fatigued throughout the day but is slowly becoming more alert.
Case, their son, is staying in Houston as well. He is getting loads of attention from cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. The Lord definitely knew what he was doing when he blessed Spencer and Lauren with Case, as he is quite possibly the happiest baby that has ever graced this planet.
Spencer is proving every day that he is one of the most compassionate, loving, supportive men on the face of the Earth. We are all so proud of him and honored to say that he is in fact, our brother, son and friend.
Please keep praying. God is working. I will update again soon.
Jeremiah 32:17
Ah Lord GOD! Behold, You have made the heavens and the earth by Your great power and outstretched arm. There is nothing too hard for You.

















